Tillis had been ill for some time. In January 2016 he underwent surgery after a serious bout of diverticulitis. He battled sepsis and spent the better part of a month in the intensive care unit. According to Grubbs, he never fully recovered. The suspected cause of death is respiratory failure.
Daughter and country singer-songwriter Pam Tillis’ Facebook page posted that her father’s death was sudden and unexpected, and asked fans to post their memories on Mel Tillis’ official Facebook page.
The singer, songwriter, comedian and businessman, whose genuine warmth and down-home humor drew countless fans, was 85 years old. In his six-decade career, he recorded over 60 albums, notched three dozen Top 10 singles and wrote over 1,000 songs, several of which are now regarded as classics.
“Mel Tillis was a guy who had it all: He could write, he could sing and he could entertain an audience,” said Grand Ole Opry announcer and WSM DJ Eddie Stubbs. “There’s a big difference between a concert and a show. Mel Tillis always put on a show….You always felt good about being around him.”
Lonnie Melvin Tillis was born to Lonnie Lee and Burma Tillis on Aug. 8, 1932, near Tampa, Fla. His speech impediment developed after a childhood bout of malaria; Tillis was mocked for his stammer when he was young, but would later use it to comedic effect on stage and screen. “After a lot of years and more hurting than I like to remember, I can talk about it lightly — which eases things a bit,” he wrote in “Stutterin’ Boy,” the autobiography he released in 1984. “It’s a way of showing people that it hasn’t licked me, so it doesn’t have to lick others.”
A child of the Great Depression, Tillis knew hard work from an early age. By the age of 10 he was shelling peas in a cannery with his mother and siblings, “but there was something more than peas in that warehouse,” he wrote in “Stutterin’ Boy.”
“It was music — hillbilly music. … I’d hardly heard any music like that before … Bill Monroe, Eddy Arnold, and the Carter Family. What a wonderful discovery!”
In high school, Tillis taught himself to play a guitar his older brother Richard bought, and soon he was getting invited to play at parties and events around his town. After a stint at the University of Florida, Tillis enlisted in the U.S. Air Force. He was stationed in Okinawa and served as a baker; he also sang on Armed Forces Radio with a band called The Westerners.
Upon leaving the Air Force in 1955, he returned to Florida and found work as a fireman on the Atlantic Coast Line railroad. When he wasn’t working, he used his railroad pass to come to Nashville and visit publishers in town to pitch his songs (they’d tell him to go back home and work on his music).
He moved to Nashville in 1957 to pursue a music career full time. That year, “I’m Tired,” a song he wrote and country star Webb Pierce recorded, went to No. 3 on the charts. Pierce found success with several other Tillis-penned songs, including “Holiday for Love,” “Honky Tonk Song,” “Tupelo County Jail,” “I Ain’t Never” and “No Love Have I.”
During the 1960s, Tillis became one of Nashville’s go-to writers. Songs like “Ruby (Don’t Take Your Love to Town),” “Mental Revenge” and “Detroit City,” among others, became country classics, and have been recorded by dozens of artists in the past half-century. Brenda Lee took “Emotions,” written by Tillis and Ramsey Kearney, to No. 7 on the pop charts in 1961.
Tillis earned his first charting country single in 1958 when he recorded “The Violet and a Rose” for Columbia. Fourteen years later, “I Ain’t Never” became his first No. 1.
As a recording artist, Tillis was most successful in the 1970s, with two dozen Top 10 hits. Five of those were chart-toppers, including “Coca Cola Cowboy,” which was featured in the Clint Eastwood film “Every Which Way But Loose.” The Country Music Association named Tillis Entertainer of the Year in 1976. That year he also was inducted into the Nashville Songwriters Hall of Fame.
In addition to his music career, Tillis appeared regularly on television shows such as “Hee Haw” and “Hollywood Squares,” was in multiple films, including “Smokey and the Bandit 2” and “Cannonball Run,” and appeared in commercials for the fast-food chain Whataburger, which further enhanced his visibility. When Tillis’ chart success began to wane, he began focusing more attention on his business ventures. He owned radio stations and acquired several publishing companies with thousands of songs in their catalogs. He also opened his own theater in Branson, Mo., performing several thousand shows there before selling the property.
In 1984, Ricky Skaggs took one of his songs, “Honey (Open That Door),” to the top of the charts. In the 1990s, Tillis, Waylon Jennings, Bobby Bare and Jerry Reed formed the supergroup Old Dogs; the band released a self-titled album of songs penned by Shel Silverstein.
It’s hard to say who was prouder in 2007 when his daughter, singer Pam Tillis, inducted her father into the Grand Ole Opry. Later that year, Mel Tillis was working in his Ashland City garden when he got a phone call telling him he was going to be inducted into the Country Music Hall of Fame. He was so stunned he dropped the eggplant he was holding. “I’m just so thankful, for everything,” he kept repeating the day of the Hall of Fame medallion ceremony. Four years later, Tillis was named a National Medal of Arts recipient for his contributions to country music; he received his award in February 2012 during a ceremony at the White House.
“Mel Tillis spent a lifetime giving us joy and laughter and music, which is why his death brings such sadness,” said Country Music Hall of Fame and Museum CEO Kyle Young in a statement. “Had he never stepped on a stage, he would still have been one of the funniest and most genuine people on the planet. But his whimsy and warmth were only a part of his appeal. He wrote some of country music’s most compelling and consequential songs, he fronted a remarkable band, and he sang with power and emotion. He also shone as an inspiration, revealing what others called an impediment as a vehicle for humor and hope.”
If Tillis wasn’t onstage (and he often was: during the peak of his career, he played up to 300 dates a year), chances are he could be found fishing, gardening or painting — he’d often donate the proceeds from the sales of his art to charity. He toured with his band The Statesiders, who were named after his 1966 single “Stateside,” and regularly appeared on the Opry into his 80s. “It so happened that I found what I was good for,” Tillis, discussing his music career, told The Tennessean in 1965. “I’m lucky. A lot of people go through life and never find out.”
Tillis is survived by his longtime partner Kathy DeMonaco, his children, Pam, Carrie April, Cindy, Mel Jr. (nicknamed “Sonny”), Connie and Hannah; brother Richard; sister Linda Crosby; and six grandchildren and one great-grandson.
Funeral arrangements are unavailable at this time. Memorials will be held in Florida and Nashville.
No. 1 singles
1972: “I Ain’t Never”
1976: “Good Woman Blues,” “Heart Healer”
1978: “I Believe in You”
1979: “Coca Cola Cowboy”
1980: “Southern Rains”
Awards and honors
1976: received CMA Entertainer of the Year Award, inducted into Nashville Songwriters Hall of Fame
2007: inducted into Grand Ole Opry and Country Music Hall of Fame
2010: received Academy of Country Music Cliffie Stone Pioneer Award
2012: received National Medal of Arts
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