HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY ON THIS BEAUTIFUL SUNDAY
To Mom’s Grandmothers, and Women who stand in, to be caring substitutes for Moms May you all be blessed and spoiled on this very special day ! Rhon
A beautiful story below to read by: Marion Bond West in Daily Guidepost
Oh Father God…for sweet memories that never die, I praise you ! signed…. Marion
Often a song will remind me of my mother, who died in 2001 at 92. When I was growing up in the 1940’s , she had several 78 rpm records that she played for me: “Sentimental Journey , “Go Tell it on the Mountain,” and “Alexander’s Rag Time Band,” to name a few. When “Alexander’s Rag Time Band” played, she’d often step into the loving room from the kitchen and dance the Charleston. One of my fondest memories of her, at nearly ninety, is doing the Charleston at a wedding reception. Today I can tune the radio to a nostalgic station and hear her favorite songs. Sometimes, though I long for Mama to bend down and give me a hug. The most part, I gave away everything of hers except for a couple boxes of her belongings. One rainy day, I really missed her and started digging around in her old clothes packed away in the back of the closet. I brought out her plum-colored chenille bathrobe. , the one in which I used to watch her do the Charleston! Almost ceremoniously, I slipped into it and tied the long, skinny sash. The robe came almost to the floor . I stood before the mirror-a perfect fit! I hugged myself tightly and, amazingly, it felt as though Mama had reached down from heaven and embraced me. I could almost hear her happy voice saying, “I love you!”
The memory of the righteous is blessed….(Proverbs 10:7)
The first attempts to establish a “Mother’s Day” in the United States came from women’s peace groups.] A common early activity was the meeting of groups of mothers whose sons had fought or died on opposite sides of the American Civil War.In 1868, Ann Jarvis, mother of Anna Jarvis, created a committee to establish a “Mother’s Friendship Day”, the purpose of which was “to reunite families that had been divided during the Civil War.” Jarvis – who had previously organized “Mother’s Day Work Clubs” to improve sanitation and health for both Union and Confederate encampments undergoing a typhoid outbreak – wanted to expand this into an annual memorial for mothers, but she died in 1905 before the celebration became popular.Her daughter would continue her mother’s efforts.There were several limited observances in the 1870s and the 1880s but none achieved resonance beyond the local level.At the time, Protestant schools in the United States already held many celebrations and observations such as Children’s Day, Temperance Sunday, Roll Call Day, Decision Day, Missionary Day and others. In New York City, Julia Ward Howe led a “Mother’s Day for Peace” anti-war observance on June 2, 1872,] which was accompanied by a Mother’s Day Proclamation. The observance continued in Boston for about 10 years under Howe’s personal sponsorship, then died out]Several years later a Mother’s Day observance on May 13, 1877 was held in Albion, Michigan over a dispute related to thetemperance movement. According to local legend, Albion pioneer Juliet Calhoun Blakeley stepped up to complete the sermon of the Rev. Myron Daughterty who was distraught because an anti-temperance group had forced his son and two other temperance advocates at gunpoint to spend the night in a saloon and become publicly drunk. From the pulpit Blakeley called on other mothers to join her. Blakeley’s two sons, both traveling salesmen, were so moved that they vowed to return each year to pay tribute to her and embarked on a campaign to urge their business contacts to do likewise. At their urging, in the early 1880s, the Methodist Episcopal Church in Albion set aside the second Sunday in May to recognize the special contributions of mothers.20th centuryFrank E. Hering, President of theFraternal Order of Eagles, made a plea for “a national day to honor our mothers” in 1904]
Mother’s Day 1915 postcard from Northern Pacific Railway
In its present form, Mother’s Day was established by Anna Jarvis with the help of Philadelphia merchant John Wanamaker following the death of her mother, Ann Jarvis, on May 9, 1905. Jarvis never mentioned Howe or Mothering Sunday, and she never mentioned any connection to the Protestant school celebrations, always claiming that the creation of Mother’s Day was hers alone.
A small service was held on May 12, 1907 in the Andrew’s Methodist Episcopal Church inGrafton, West Virginia, where Anna’s mother had been teaching Sunday school. The first “official” service was on May 10, 1908, in the same church, accompanied by a larger ceremony in the Wanamaker Auditorium in the Wanamaker’s store in Philadelphia.] The next year the day was reported to be widely celebrated in New York.
President Wilson’s Mother’s Day Proclamation of May 9, 1914
Jarvis then campaigned to establish Mother’s Day first as a U.S. national holiday and then later as an international holiday. The holiday was declared officially by the state of West Virginia in 1910, and the rest of the states followed quickly.
On May 10, 1913, the U.S. House of Representatives passed a resolution calling on all federal government officials (from the president down) to wear a white carnation the following day in observance of Mother’s Day.] On May 8, 1914, the U.S. Congress passed a law designating the second Sunday in May as Mother’s Day and requesting a proclamation. The next day, President Woodrow Wilson issued a proclamation declaring the first national Mother’s Day as a day for American citizens to show the flag in honor of those mothers whose sons had died in war.[ In 1934, U.S. President Franklin D. Roosevelt approved a stamp commemorating the holiday.
In May 2008 the U.S. House of Representatives voted twice on a resolution commemorating Mother’s Day, the first one being passed without a dissenting vote (21 members not voting). The Grafton church, where the first celebration was held, is now the International Mother’s Day Shrine and is a National Historic Landmark.]
Traditions on Mother’s Day include churchgoing, the distribution of carnations, and family dinners.The holiday has been heavily commercialized by advertisers and retailers, and has been criticized by some as a Hallmark Holiday.
Carnations have come to represent Mother’s Day since Anna Jarvis delivered 500 of them at the first celebration in 1908. Many religious services held later adopted the custom of giving away carnations.] This also started the custom of wearing a carnation on Mother’s Day.The founder, Anna Jarvis, chose the carnation because it was the favorite flower of her mother.[ In part due to the shortage of white carnations, and in part due to the efforts to expand the sales of more types of flowers in Mother’s Day, florists invented the idea of wearing a red carnation if your mother was living, or a white one if she was dead; this was tirelessly promoted until it made its way into the popular observations at churches.
The commercialization of the American holiday began very early, and only nine years after the first official Mother’s Day it had become so rampant that Anna Jarvis herself became a major opponent of what the holiday had become,spending all her inheritance and the rest of her life fighting what she saw as an abuse of the celebration.She decried the practice of purchasing greeting cards, which she saw as a sign of being too lazy to write a personal letter. She was arrested in 1948 for disturbing the peace while protesting against the commercialization of Mother’s Day, and she finally said that she “…wished she would have never started the day because it became so out of control …”She died later that year.
However, Mother’s Day is now one of the most commercially successful American occasions, having become the most popular day of the year to dine out at a restaurant in the United States[ and generating a significant portion of the U.S. jewelry industry’s annual revenue, from custom gifts like mother’s rings. Americans spend approximately $2.6 billion on flowers, $1.53 billion on pampering gifts—like spa treatments—and another $68 million on greeting cards.
Commercialization has ensured that the holiday has continued, when other holidays from the same time, such as Children’s Day and Temperance Sunday, are no longer celebrated.